Eats: NYC

“Grand Sichuan,” is my answer when asked what I would like to do first when I get to NYC.
A fairly unrealized gem in this great city of superb dining, this is my favorite restaurant in the city and probably one of my favorite restaurants in most of the world that I have traveled to yet. There are only a handful of restaurants that have ever spiked my tastebuds to the point of exuberant literary exhilaration and this is one of them.
Commonly known as Szechuan style Chinese food in the greater part of the U.S., this Americanized version has never inflamed my senses let alone my intestines as this restaurant. “Szechuan” food has usually lead me to a disappointingly mild version and has mislead most Americans of its true Sichuan province pronunciation. Authentic Sichuan food and its spices could very well be illegal in the U.S. for its, as politely put, metabolizing properties, and impolitely put, ass-burning qualities but is the way I would particularly want to experience it outside of its unbelievably picturesque landscape of central China.
My most go-to dish is the beef tendon saturated in numbing chili sauce with spring onions although it is considered an appetizer. To me, it is my kimchi dish where it pairs well with any other entree throughout the whole meal, or could be consumed just by itself with rice.

Another dish that is unforgettable is the soft-shell crab with peppers and celery. The celery complements the spices like an obsessive, opposite attraction. This is my most favorite way to enjoy soft-shell crab.

An unfamiliar dish, and a very addictive one that I was introduced to this time was beef literally swimming in the famed sichuan chili-oil but was ridiculously taken up fifty or more notches with almost a quarter cup of black pepper that circled around the casserole-like dish. I can do most chili-oil based dishes without enormous amounts of white rice on the side, but I had to try and avoid the black pepper just so I could enjoy the dish without coughing. The black pepper seemed to be an aesthetic proposition from the chef, or a test to prove how much spiciness you could consume. It was grand in spite of the black peppering.


Go there: Grand Sichuan, 227 Lexington Avenue, between 33rd and 34th.
Tel: 212-679-9770


Style: NYC

I saw him while shopping in SOHO. Retro with a modern edge is what’s so fresh! There is constantly so much material for me to use in NYC. (In this sense, “material” meaning my subjects.) But what always really draws me and intrigues me to photograph and write about is when I see men dressed with meaning.

There is no excuse for men to dress sloppy anymore. Men’s apparel has almost come full circle where the “nice-looking” clothes are no longer always at a premium sticker price. Style is so much more attainable more than ever now with not only great designers for men such as John Varvatos, Tom Ford, any tier Ralph Lauren, to mid-priced labels such as All Saints or even Diesel, but truly affordable with fast-fashion stores in the mix such as Zara, Topman, Uniqlo, and H&M.
More fitted clothing is running rampant everywhere and should not be associated with clean-cut professionals who can afford to get clothing stitched and tucked. It should also be a telltale sign of the times that tighter and skinnier pants are no longer a questionable matter when it comes to masculinity. Who gives a damn, what you are? The man with a firm grip on style always comes out as the most sexiest.

Airport Style: ICN (Seoul)

I agreed to go with my niece and nephew to their church in Seoul. It was kind of eye-awakening and liberating that these seemingly conservatives came just how they were. I saw some hipsters and even some punk-rockers on a Sunday, but they were all too shy for me to photograph. As I was leaving Seoul, I thought the best people to photograph would be the non-Koreans. When I tapped Holland’s shoulder, I thought she was Japanese by her dress and her light-brown hair color. She was in fact a foreign student from California on her way to Sapporo. Her cute style matched her cute personality. Maybe I was drawn to her style because it somewhat reminded me of my own style; not too vomiting-ish femininity coupled with sexy solids in different textures.

Eats: Seoul

I have a love/hate relationship with Seoul as I do with many things in my life such as the men that I date but the sentiment is more like the feelings I have with New York City. The blisteringly cold winters and the sticky hot summers make me never want to actually partake in their kind of life no matter how grand the city may be. Plus, if I lived in Seoul, I certainly couldn’t maintain my 112lb. frame (which is considered voluptuous?!?! by Seoul standards) I’ve carried since the end of high school up until now. The only thing that is reasonably cheap in Seoul is the delectable food and the not so delicious, paralyzing hangovers.

Talking about food, the main reason why I love and visit Seoul, I always discover new eats, something more addictive than before that makes me dream of it and pine over it until I get another fix of it. I think these food infatuations are worse than any infatuation I have had for a man because with the food in Seoul, I lust over it for a lifetime and grieve over it like a knife to my heart if I can never have it again.


This time around, I found a new undying love for a Korean-Chinese restaurant I fell upon after feet-hurting, shoulder-hurting, psychologically-draining shopping. Korean-Chinese food is a dime a dozen in Korea and is the most delivered food like mediocre pizza delivery in the U.S. This type of food, don’t quote me on this, was created by Chinese immigrants who needed to make a living in Korea. Mainly, these dishes are jjajjangmyun and jjambbong. Anyhow, so much about the historical details, these noodle dishes made me hurt with love. The moment I took a bite, I wished, I kind of dreamt that I was Anthony Bourdain with a camera following my every facial expression, comment, and invocation. I wanted to be so educated in food like him that I could be cool enough to curse my words of delight. I cursed in my head and verbally instead, summoned the owner and told him that this was “unbelievable” and that this was the “best meal I have ever had in my life compared to even the priciest meals I have had.”


With all carb-ish food, the thicker the better. I guess my affinity towards bread, pasta, and noodles made me overly injected with mind-clouding, and stomach-swelling happiness. The owner told me the chef was the most famously known noodle maker. The restaurant was bursting with pride of being showcased in many t.v. shows in Korea. The chef basically takes a block of dough and shaves it with a knife to make those extra thick noodles instead of making the usual hand-stretched noodles. XXX brilliant!

The images you see above is what I ordered. I had the stir-fried seafood noodles (superb) and the ultra-Korean dish, kalgooksu (the broth, noodles, and the amount of clams were amazing). Next time, I’m going to order the whole menu just for myself, just out of gluttony because I don’t want to look over my shoulder and become jealous of what my neighbors ordered. I think it’s totally worth it.
Go there. Rahnjoo kahlmyun.
1F, 25-9, Chungmuro-1ga, joong-ku, Seoul.
Phone: 02.779.4800

Style: SF

Well, not exactly SF, but the northern Bay Area is where I ran into casual coolness. This proves that you don’t have to be trendy or over-the-top with fashion to be stylish. I always think that style comes from within and it truly shows when someone is trying too hard which usually results in uber fashion faux paus-es. Even with a simple t-shirt and jeans, accessories with character can accentuate low-key into a dapper look.

Airport Style: SFO

So effortlessly chic. Her floral dress reminded me of a Monet painting and the colors of Van Gogh’s Starry Night. Although I am not a fan of true floral patterns and prints, I cannot get enough of artistic prints. Tan accessories work with anything! It is not only the new black, it is way better than just black. Her naturalistic hair and beautiful face works so well with the whole ensemble.

Style: Denver

This is a great way to dress for summer. Her not-too-fitted print dress was airy enough to keep her cool, yet girly enough to keep her pretty. Her beige shoes made her look even more lean and leggy.

Airport Style: DEN

For some reason, I was getting a lot of luck out of the underrepresented Denver area. This man wasn’t too pleased with me when I asked him for a photograph, but nonetheless, he was going to be in my blog. The mixture of patterns on his shirt and scarf work because of the neutralness of his jacket and pants. His glasses were even beige. An unconventional color for eyeglasses, but very cool! Sir, you can smile now.